I DON'T COUNT CALORIES BUT I LIKE A HEALTHY SERVING

Ladies you have a witness. I am a lover, I am an admirer, I am a follower, I am a supporter of big beautiful women.

And finally I am here to testify that big beautiful women are a nourishing life force and natural resource of the world. They provide us with warmth, shelter, and let’s not forget food. (When they feel like sharing)

This blog spot is dedicated to all of you women whom can identify themselves with the women that I am describing. The big zealous, life giving, charming, succulent, squeezeably soft, irresistibly giving, caring and voluptuous woman of my dreams.

My Name is David Rivera Jr. and I consider my self a connoisseur of all women, with a specialty and penchant for the more full figured, plus and Supersize.

Yes, I’m that man who,when passing Lane Bryant and Ashley Stewart stores, stops to look inside to see what beautiful women are being collected.

Don’t misunderstand me. This is no fetish and no whim. I am attracted to the extra beauty and sensitivity that so often resonates from big beautiful women that I find the “other” women are lacking.

Not only do I respect and admire these women, but as I see them coming into the mainstream media more, such as with Jill Scott’s HBO’s new television series, “No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency”; I suspect that the rest of the world will finally start to be more willing participants in the world of the big woman. And not just when “The Biggest Loser” is playing.

There are some sisters I have to recognize for their contributions to the BBW movement, they may not know who I am but I see them, shout outs to Oprah, Monique, Sharon Quinn, Erica Watson (will try to come out to catch your one woman show), Queen Raqui of Large in Charge ,Gwen Devoe, Yvonne Forbes, Lynx Garcia, Aja of Belle Noir and The Curvesity movement. If I failed to mention anyone know that I support you all and am watching very closely.

Having written an erotic book for the big beautiful women “The Last Prejudice” has forced me into the spot light and I dare say that I am enjoying the notoriety.

I’ve never hidden my love for the big women, but now I am shouting it from the highest mountain and I am asking others that share my taste to follow suit.

So BBW’s if you’re feeling what I’m saying shout me out and give me a bite of that sandwich, and I ain’t talking salami. On second thought, if it’ll get you to join me, a salami sandwich it is. And remember I don’t count calorie’s, but I like a healthy serving.

"So let it be written, so let it be done."

David “Harlem’s Dragon” Rivera Jr.

The Last Prejudice

Do Big Beautiful Women hold back more in their sexual relationships than other women?

Do Big Beautiful Women allow their own perception of body image to interfere with the way they resolve the issues that plague their chances of happiness?

When a relationship fails, are you one of those Big Beautiful Women that somehow blames their failure on your weight? Do you depreciate yourself? Do you wonder if his next girlfriend is thinner than you?

Do you blame it on your extra rolls, on the creases in your folds? Do you?

Do you find things that were wrong with you or possibly something your body was lacking that HE found unappealing? Did your thighs rub together and create dark spots that you did not want him to see. Well, guess what? HE saw them and guess another thing, it had nothing to do with the break up. See, there are other issues that certainly contributed to the break up. Could have your own perception and fears possibly contributed to the break up? Sometimes without knowing we sabotage our own happiness.

My beautiful full, voluptuous Goddesses, I am in no way judging you or minimizing the things that plague your minds. I’ve been there ladies. I too, yes, a MAN , have my own issues with my body image, I won’t take my shirt off on the beach unless some semblance of a six pack is showing, and ladies I am that man on the beach looking at all of you lovely shapely women , plus, full figured and yes SUPERSIZE women covering up all those glorious thunder thighs. Why do you hide? Why do I? Because it is the story we created in our minds. Attributed to the many stereotypes that people of size face in a society so focused on so called Beauty.

This is part of the reason I was inspired to write the last prejudice. What is “The Last Prejudice?”

“The Last Prejudice”, is the thoughts we have about our selves when we look in the mirror and are not satisfied that we have met society’s requisite image of perfection.

You may not know it to look at me but I have my own issues with my body. As I mentioned earlier, I do not remove my shirt on the beach or any other public venue for that matter. Not because anyone has ever told me that I’m fat or out of shape, but because that is the way that I see myself.

In this world that insists that our images reflect those of stick figures and women plagued with eating disorders it is important that we look deep inside ourselves to find the person that we truly wish to be other wise we apt to destroy our selves within and without.

So now I say to all the beautiful big women out there, enjoy yourself and let all of the real men enjoy you. Forgive us our trespasses, as we know not what the hell we’re doing or saying half of the time that we open our mouths. Allow us to love you the way that you are with or without the lights being on, and last but not least if it ain’t broke don’t fix it.

The Last Prejudice is all in your mind. Don’t allow others that are not in your world affect you.

"So let it be written, so let it be done"

David “Harlem’s Dragon”, Rivera Jr.